Ten Politically Incorrect 'Truths' About Sex

    Evolutionary biologists look at the mating game, and turn conventional wisdom on its head. Psychology Today has a good article that challenges beliefs that are widely (and deeply) held. Some of these won't seem controversial to aphrodisiology's readers, but others are thought-provoking.
  • Men like blond bombshells (and women want to look like them)
  • Humans are naturally polygamous
  • Most women benefit from polygyny, while most men benefit from monogamy
  • Most suicide bombers are Muslim
  • Having sons reduces the likelihood of divorce
  • Beautiful people have more daughters
  • What Bill Gates and Paul McCartney have in common with criminals
  • The midlife crisis is a myth—sort of
  • It's natural for politicians to risk everything for an affair (but only if they're male)
  • Men sexually harass women because they are not sexist

You can read the article here

A few of my thoughts:

  • Men like blond bombshells

    This discussion focuses on the Barbi Doll hip-waist ratio, which is a fairly good predictor of a woman's ability to have many children. And that has been used in dolls for hundreds of years, in many cultures, independent of Mattel Toys and their patriarchy. Ok. But one obvious reason that favors blondness is never really addressed. Blond hair is a recessive trait from a genetic standpoint. Women with naturally blond hair are likely to be loaded with recessive traits. Which means that her offspring are more likely to: A) display hybrid vigor, and B) resemble the father, especially when the father carries lots of dominant genes.

  • Humans are naturally polygamous

    This needs debating? There is obviously a biological tendency towards polygamy, and a cultural tendency towards monogamy. Both confer some advantages, and the combination creates tension.

  • Most women benefit from polygyny, while most men benefit from monogamy

    Huh? Women can also benefit from polyandry if their husband is shooting blanks, or if she wants one of her kids to have a different father for some other reason. Most men would lose if we returned to the polygyny of old, where the rich and powerful had multiple wives, while the weak and poor had none.

  • Most suicide bombers are Muslim

    Sure - sorta. The Japanese Kamikazees were Shinto. The modern suicide vest was developed by the Tamil Tigers in Sri Lanka. And suicide bombing has really caught on in Iraq recently, so that religion is on top of the charts today. But their point - that many men in Arab societies are unable to find wives (and thus are ripe for extremism) is true.

  • Having sons reduces the likelihood of divorce.

    Statistically true, and harmonic with the age-old idea that having a son (or sons) equals reproductive success. But it doesn't justify the abortion of female fetuses that is so popular in some parts of the world. What happens when everyone there gets what they want, and their sons have no potential brides??

  • Beautiful people have more daughters

    Again, statistically true. Not sure about their explanation on this one, though.

  • What Bill Gates and Paul McCartney have in common with criminals

    Most men peak at an early age. The surge of hormones at an early age can lead to creative genius, or crime. Yeah, andropause is a bitch. An under-recognized, so-slow-it-is-invisible bitch.

  • The midlife crisis is a myth—sort of

    Interesting way to look at it.

  • It's natural for politicians to risk everything for an affair (but only if they're male)

    Fits with the whole evolutionary biology framework, although now that contraceptives can uncouple sex with reproduction and women are more likely to have political office, this one may change over the next millenia or two.

  • Men sexually harass women because they are not sexist

    They conclude "Abuse, intimidation, and degradation are all part of men's repertoire of tactics employed in competitive situations. In other words, men are not treating women differently from men—the definition of discrimination, under which sexual harassment legally falls—but the opposite: Men harass women precisely because they are not discriminating between men and women." Hmmm....

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